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Wednesday, December 6, 2023

POPPAW’S ROCKING CHAIR

 


From Linda Lee Greene Author/Artist

 

That Christmas Weekend of 1952, there was a radio somewhere in the farmhouse of my maternal grandparents, tucked away, gathering dust. It hadn’t been turned on much since World War II when the family was anxious about the fate of their eldest soldier-son in battle with the Germans. By 1952, television had taken the place of radio in most homes, but such a “newfangled machine” hadn’t yet found its place in the farmhouse. The local newspaper held on as my grandparent’s major source of information, and by way of it, they knew that Harry S. Truman would hand over the keys to the White House to Dwight D. Eisenhower the following month; that Elizabeth II had succeeded her deceased father to Great Britain’s Royal Crown; and that war was on yet again, but in a faraway place known as Korea. That Christmas Weekend while my parents and my little brother and I were at the farm, the bulky and black rotary-dial telephone that sat on the stand by the front door of our own house eighty-five miles north of the farmhouse, could ring off the hook for all we knew. No answering machine or voice mail would alert us to missed calls upon our return home. Such conveniences were as yet to come into existence. Like the television, the telephone was another “newfangled machine” that Poppaw scoffed at and Mommaw wanted but wouldn’t get until several years later.

          Christmas was like any other day on the farm: the cows still needed rounded up and fed and milked; the hogs still needed slopped; the chickens still needed fed and their eggs gathered; and the outdoors dogs and cats still needed attended to, as well. That morning Poppaw was agitated over a fox that was menacing the chickens. His .22 in his broad and brawny farmer’s hands, he had slogged across the nearby soupy fields in hunt of the fox, but the wily creature had outsmarted Poppaw again.

          Discarding his muddy boots at the back door and propping his rifle in a corner of the entryway, Poppaw traipsed in his stocking feet to the coffee pot on the kitchen counter. He poured a cup of the steaming brew, lightened it with the heavy cream skimmed from the milk of his best milk cow, loaded it with sugar, and chugged it. And then he trudged to his rocking chair in the front room and draped his coat on its back. Poppaw always kept his coat within arm’s reach and his footwear at the back door, because there was no telling what awful things could happen out on the farm. One of the horses could lose its footing on an icy bank of the creek and plunge in to freezing ice-capped water way over its head—especially Old Roger. “That horse ain’t got the sense he was born with no more. He’s jist gitting too old and simple,” Poppaw often complained. Or that crafty fox could get into more devilment. He could sneak back in the henhouse and send the chickens scurrying and flopping and squawking into the farmhouse yard and up on the porch just as soon as Poppaw was out of the way.

Poppaw’s rocking chair was perpetually pulled up as close as possible to the chugging wood-burning stove. The farmhouse was abuzz with the voices of Poppaw and Mommaw’s several visiting adult children and their spouses and their children. I was in hog-heaven because being with my grandparents, my uncles and aunts and cousins was my favorite thing. I was champing at the bit to get Christmas morning underway. In my hands, as always, was my mother’s camera with which I would memorialize my family’s Christmas in black and white images. After what seemed an eternity to my fidgety cousins and me, Poppaw lowered his Abe Lincoln frame to his creaky rocking chair. It was our signal to begin our Christmas celebration.

My mother had stewed over what to get Poppaw for Christmas as she had done every Christmas of my nine years of life at that point. And as usual, she settled on two flannel shirts, two pairs of wool socks, and a couple packs of Mail Pouch chewing tobacco. Just about everyone else had decided on flannel shirts, wool socks and chewing tobacco for Poppaw too, and by the end of the hour, Poppaw had enough of them for an army. I snapped the photo of Poppaw opening the first of our gifts to him, and now I share it with you. Happy Holidays to you and yours. May it be as happy as ours was on that Christmas of 1952.

Oh, and Poppaw! I hope yours is a rocking good 125th birthday up there in Heaven today.©

                                                                        


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Several years ago, I wrote a novel about Poppaw and Mommaw, their kids, and extended family titled GUARDIANS AND OTHER ANGELS. The novel is a blend of fiction and nonfiction and includes transcriptions of actual letters the members of the family wrote to one another over the years and provide a poignant glimpse into the lives of a particular strata of American people during the twentieth century. Among the catalog of my books, GUARDIANS AND OTHER ANGELS is my favorite. The act of writing it brought me home again after decades of rootlessness and alienation from my authentic self. It is a novel written from my heart more than any before then or afterwards. If you feel inspired to read the book, it is available for purchase at  http://goo.gl/imUwKO.

                                                                         


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Thursday, December 22, 2022

THIS IS YOUR LIFE!

 

From Linda Lee Greene Author/Artist

 

“The pessimist resembles a man who observes with fear and sadness that his wall calendar, from which he daily tears a sheet, grows thinner with each passing day. On the other hand, the person who attacks the problems of life actively is like a man who removes each successive leaf from his calendar and files it neatly and carefully away with its predecessors, after first having jotted down a few diary notes on the back. He can reflect with pride and joy on all the richness set down on these notes, [and] on all the life he has already lived to the fullest. What will it matter to him if he notices that he is growing old? Has he any reason to envy the young people whom he sees, or wax nostalgic over his own lost youth? What reasons has he to envy a young person? For the possibilities that a young person has, for the future which is in store for him? ‘No, thank you’ he will think. ‘Instead of possibilities, I have realities in my past, not only the reality of work done, but of sufferings bravely suffered. These sufferings are even the things of which I am most proud, though these are things which cannot inspire envy’.” – Viktor E. Frankl, MAN’S SEARCH FOR MEANING, pg 124-125.

            December 8 – 10, 2018 was the date of my initial reading of Frankl’s iconic book, which chronicles his experiences as a prisoner in Nazi Concentration Camps during World War II. That December of 2018, I was at the lovely Palm Harbor, Florida home of my kid sister Susan (Suzee) attending to her however possible in the final days of her life. She passed twelve days after I closed the last page of Frankl’s book. I read the book again recently and was struck anew by the paragraph cited above. The paragraph strikes me not only because of the wisdom imparted in it, but also because it recalls to me one of Suzee’s most endearing qualities, and one of her most enduring qualities, as it turns out.



            Suzee was an avid writer of personal journals. Following her death, other members of my family and I sorted through her personal effects for their appropriate dissemination. For instance, as a voracious reader, over the years Suzee had amassed an impressive library, and one of our tasks was to annotate in her name dozens of her books, which we donated to the hospice facility that had seen her through her last hours. In addition, we were astounded to find journals dating from her teenage years right up to a month before her death. She had turned 63 only three months before. Alongside the journals tucked away in numerous trunks and boxes was every letter, card, and memento she had received dating from her childhood to her final days.  

            Currently, this written treasure trove of Suzee’s life is stored away in my sister Sherri’s garage. Sherri has been going through it and separating it into individual boxes for further distribution: a box for herself, one for me and other members of our family, as well as Suzee’s friends. In the process, Sherri is stopping to read much of it. “Oh, Linnie,” Sherri expresses to me over the phone. “Through Suzee’s journals and letters, I’m reliving so much of our family history and even world history that I had forgotten. What a legacy she has left us!” The exercise is turning out to be a “This is Your Life” experience for Sherri, as well.

As Frankl tells us, a look back on our personal history can fill us with pride and joy on all the richness and all the life we have already lived to the fullest, and as Suzee shows us, the ones we leave behind can also call to memory forgotten but nonetheless precious history we made together and shared. That is one beautiful gift.©

 

Image: Susan Renee Greene in the 1980s

 

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