Tuesday, March 26, 2019

THE DAY I SAW MY PARENTS CRY by LINDA LEE GREENE©





I was a teenager then, slugging it out in every waking moment with the emotional turmoil that being a teenager brings, and on top of that, my parents had moved me that year from the inner-city neighborhood, friends, and school that I loved, and had plopped me down in “Hee Haw“

country where I stuck out every bit as prominently as did Elly Mae on the “Beverly Hillbillies,” which crossed our TV screens a few years down the road. The push and pull; the black, white, yellow, and tan faces; the scents of exotic cuisines through open windows; the narrow, brick streets lined with parked cars on both sides for as far as the eye could see, that had been my 507 West Second Avenue in Columbus, Ohio home, and the trade-off in the wide-open spaces of suburbia wasn’t hitting my sweet spot. And then one morning when I walked in the kitchen of the new house my parents and their siblings had built for us with their bare hands, I caught my parents sitting at the table crying.

            There isn’t much of anything more arresting to a child than witnessing the “first” argument between his/her parents. As I was to discover that morning before I boarded the bus that would cart me off to the battlefield of my new school, beholding ones parents wrapped up in each other arms swaying in utter grief is similarly earth-shattering. “What did I do wrong?” was my first thought. “Are we losing our home?” was my second.

            At the time, my dad worked nights as a punch-press operator at the Jeffrey Manufacturing Company in Columbus. Like the inner-city neighborhood from which we had moved, the company had been the staple of our family’s existence since I was a young girl. But that day, and for a few, uncertain others to come, it was our punisher, for dad had lost the end of his middle finger to the punch-press machine that night. The accident was the source of my parent’s tears, not so much because dad was in pain, but because of their fear over what it would mean in terms of his job security. Would he be able to continue with his current job? Would the company place him in another one if need be? Would he be let go?

            Within a day of two, dad did return to work. I do not remember if to his old position or to a new one at the plant. Other than that incident with his losing part of his finger, I do not remember my dad ever missing work due to illness. I am reminded of a statistic I once read. It stated that most of the people of the world go to work every day sick, or wounded, or even dying. That was my dad, and my mother, too. That was the kind of people they were.  

           

That’s three or four-year-old me in the photo, peeking around my mother’s hip. Dad worked at Jeffrey Manufacturing even then.






Multi-award winning author Linda Lee Greene’s books are available worldwide in soft cover and eBook formats on Amazon and other online booksellers.      

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